We all know how's dA doing these days. Simple thing. I don't know if people are active here anymore. As someone who's been here for around 14 years (I think) I tend to forget about this site lately. I post artwork on twitter, instagram... it doesn't get an enormous amount of attention, but it's much more satisfying than dA this days. And to be honest, I even like the current layout. But the place seems, well.. dead. Sad for me, but I got used to see places dying and people disappearing =I
One day I'm gonna remind myself of dA again but it's my least priority right now. I'm just letting go past 2 years. You can always find my junk over instagram or twitter.
It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later.
and a song for attention
There are many things that I could have said. The most important one is that I have been irresponsible since emotions easily take over my actions. I guess all of you recognize Avengers, because I’d like to tell you about my favourite and most relatable hero.
Hulk and Bruce Banner, sharing one body but being two different beings, are the ones I relate with a lot. Chill professor that needs to keep himself calm and not stressed out to avoid letting Hulk out and committing a total disaster around.
Everyday I seem (it’s not my opinion but people’s around) as a happy, chill person that doesn’t bother much. I don’t talk much. I’m unnoticeable because this is how I roll. However those happy face that people see as my own peace of mind aren’t permanent. I need to focus myself on avoiding triggers that would let my inner Hulk out. Because once my Hulk is out, everything can happen - I can be mad at everything, I can be sad, I can be distraught. I won’t have much control over myself then. I’d follow my instinct and then regret once I calm down.
Due my low self-esteem I’ve been suicidal for years and now, when I think about it, I did some self harm even when I was a child below 10 years old. Last years has been a weird ride for me - nothing bad happening in my life, but my brain was a dumpster of negative emotions, because I wanted to prove myself as an artist and creator and couldn’t actually break through. Also the upcoming end of university and vision of the future when I’d have to work as an artist for real were scaring me. And then my fears came true - I really couldn’t find a work as an artist. Few past months have been hard for me. I couldn’t find a place for myself and feel as a complete person. I found a job that is far from art, but it’s calming and, what made my cry once, seems to be more useful for society than all of my creations together. But I found some kind of peace. I fell in love and still have a person who keeps me going.
Yet I failed some people, what stopped being scary for me after it happened. I failed as an artist again. Don’t ask about details, I don’t want to talk about this but those people might know what I mean and I’m truly sorry. I just couldn’t do the right thing.
Two days ago I could finally admit that I’m happy with myself, that I enjoy this simple life right now. I don’t care about future, I don’t care about… I just don’t care. Because it’s healthier.
Just to realize a hour later all of my failitures and where should I’ve been. I’ve lost my mind, became suicidal, Hulk came out. For few hours. Then I chilled.
Now, I write it all because the explanation was requested by one of my good followers who reminded me how it looks from the other side. I’m awful at expressing myself. I express myself via screams, cries, shaking. I can’t explain things, it all chokes me. It happens irl, in happens in web communication.
Now some people say that I should get help. Again, quoting one more character from MCU, ‘I’m not doing get help’.
And one more thing from MCU, it’s not a quote because I don’t remember it word by word:
We should focus on learning how to be who we are, not who we are meant to be.
I’m sorry I’m stressing you out like that guys. I’m thankful you are here, still.